27 | Problem is like bad haircut -
To celebrate new chapter in my life, I decided to give a big chop but that run unexpectedly.
I have a bad haircut in the very important year, this year.
Grey's Anatomy's Richard Webber said, its not useful to be pissed if it's not used.
So let my pissed off over the bad haircut does the summary of my birthday memoir.
- IN TERMS OF CAUSALITY
1) Just like everyone has a bad hair day, no matter what phase of life you are on, problem does exist. Some phase is bit too exclusive to be branded, like quarter life crisis, but it doesnt mean crisis is kissing your life goodbye once you are no longer quarter life age. Crisis will shadow as long as there is life.
2) Your hairdresser is not the only one to take all the blame. I didnt give detail instruction and said nothing when I felt something wrong was happening. The same, do not blame others but check on yourself if you have done anything you could when the alarm is ringing slowly.
3) Maybe I didn't tip the hairdresser well, so he just revenged. Always be generous to people, you will never know if they can help you pass through the problem, or even keep you out of problem.
- IN TERMS OF PERSPECTIVE
4) New look might be under-/over-estimated, because it's new and human brain needs time and more information to process. I hate mirror reflection of my weird funny new look not to mention my mom's blunt comments. But time will make everything better, human's interpretation system will get accustomed, that new look will be no longer new and just blend into mundanity.
The label problem trigger human's awareness that it is something to be avoided when actually history proves not all problem is destructive, on the opposite it is the key to revolution and the beginning of innovation.
Most of time we fall into first judgment, without realizing that it will be much better to shift the angle and find greater perspective to make meaning.
- IN TERMS OF WAY TO TACKLE
5) Find precedence. To find that Friend's Monica had kind of same hairstyle in season 4 somewhat calm me down, at least I can say Im just into Friends a bit too much. In terms of problem, be sensitive to your surrounding, anyone else must have had some similar problems and they survive, so will you.
6) Laugh back at yourself. Just admit how funny and ridiculous you look like. Even irony laugh can bring some joy. And you will also laugh in hindsight recalling how you can pass those days with that hairstyle.
7) Smile :)! is the best makeup a woman can wear - say that Pinterest quote. Likewise, you will look uglier by pouting and frowning over your problems.
8) All roads lead to Rome. Find a way to improve : accessories, make up, or find new style of outfit that may leverage your haircut. There's always solution to problem.
- IN TERMS OF LIFE SPAN
9) Just like a bad haircut will grow long and taking you to a better shape after few months, so problem will too pass.
Why only 9 points? Because {(27-24)*3+9}/2 is 9.
I have a bad haircut in the very important year, this year.
Grey's Anatomy's Richard Webber said, its not useful to be pissed if it's not used.
So let my pissed off over the bad haircut does the summary of my birthday memoir.
- IN TERMS OF CAUSALITY
1) Just like everyone has a bad hair day, no matter what phase of life you are on, problem does exist. Some phase is bit too exclusive to be branded, like quarter life crisis, but it doesnt mean crisis is kissing your life goodbye once you are no longer quarter life age. Crisis will shadow as long as there is life.
2) Your hairdresser is not the only one to take all the blame. I didnt give detail instruction and said nothing when I felt something wrong was happening. The same, do not blame others but check on yourself if you have done anything you could when the alarm is ringing slowly.
3) Maybe I didn't tip the hairdresser well, so he just revenged. Always be generous to people, you will never know if they can help you pass through the problem, or even keep you out of problem.
- IN TERMS OF PERSPECTIVE
4) New look might be under-/over-estimated, because it's new and human brain needs time and more information to process. I hate mirror reflection of my weird funny new look not to mention my mom's blunt comments. But time will make everything better, human's interpretation system will get accustomed, that new look will be no longer new and just blend into mundanity.
The label problem trigger human's awareness that it is something to be avoided when actually history proves not all problem is destructive, on the opposite it is the key to revolution and the beginning of innovation.
Most of time we fall into first judgment, without realizing that it will be much better to shift the angle and find greater perspective to make meaning.
- IN TERMS OF WAY TO TACKLE
5) Find precedence. To find that Friend's Monica had kind of same hairstyle in season 4 somewhat calm me down, at least I can say Im just into Friends a bit too much. In terms of problem, be sensitive to your surrounding, anyone else must have had some similar problems and they survive, so will you.
6) Laugh back at yourself. Just admit how funny and ridiculous you look like. Even irony laugh can bring some joy. And you will also laugh in hindsight recalling how you can pass those days with that hairstyle.
7) Smile :)! is the best makeup a woman can wear - say that Pinterest quote. Likewise, you will look uglier by pouting and frowning over your problems.
8) All roads lead to Rome. Find a way to improve : accessories, make up, or find new style of outfit that may leverage your haircut. There's always solution to problem.
- IN TERMS OF LIFE SPAN
9) Just like a bad haircut will grow long and taking you to a better shape after few months, so problem will too pass.
Why only 9 points? Because {(27-24)*3+9}/2 is 9.